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Diversity and ageing

I was recently privileged enough to sit with 22 culturally diverse people who hailed mostly from European backgrounds and were actively involved in an Age Activities group in their community.  The median age range was 80-90 years of age and they were all still independently living in the community. 
I have never seen so many bright eyed incredibly vibrant older people in a long time.  These women shone.  Their skin radiated health and vitality.  Only three of them used any walking aid and the laughter and connection between them was infectious.
I had an hour with them and wanted to discuss what wellness meant to them.  What was their secrets to feeling well?
 
I went around the table and asked each person questions on wellness and they were so forthcoming, so articulate and so proud to share what made them tick.
 
The answers were the same again and again –
 
Family
Community
Laughter
Spirituality.
Good food, home grown produce and a balance of food groups.
They all bar one walked and moved in some way daily. 
They mowed their lawns and tended their gardens. 
They danced and listened to music.  
They read an array of publications.
They all still spoke several languages, their native tongue filled with passion and joy.
They were happy to be alive – they expected to feel this good and they were so generous in the sharing.
 
In essence their recipe for a long and joyous life included some of the most basic of human needs:


Balanced diet – everything in moderation
Exercise, movement and active living
Connection to family and community
Work & play balance
Finding purpose and meaning in one’s life
 
The three healthiest places in the world where people live the longest were found to be villages in Japan and Italy, and the commonality of both were the many dimensions of wellness that I mentioned above. 
 
There are many dimensions to wellness, irrespective of your overall health or abilities.  If you feel the time is right to discuss your wellness plans and goals then it may also be the right time to engage in a Wellness Coach.
I have done extensive formal and informal training to support you as a coach in many facets of your journey to wellness and Im immensely passionate about supporting others to find their best lifestyle balance, whilst identifying strengths, values and core needs.
So don’t let anything stop you from finding the most congruent ways forward to your life ahead, as Im here to support you in achieving your goals and plans.

3/12/2017 0 Comments

Finding the Holy Shit of Meditation 

Look I know a zillion Buddhist monks can't be wrong when it comes to meditation and enlightenment but I've got a secret to share... I've never "meditated" in my life, not unless you call sitting in nature, breathing in gratitude breathing out calm - meditation, or being so in the moment of a yoga class that I feel at one with everything good in life.
Remembering that we are creatures of habits and the sooner in life we are introduced to great habits the better.  But what are great habits?  Well depending on who and what your doing will answer some of that. Day to day good habits consist of things like brushing our teeth, locking the front door before going to work, putting our seat belt on before driving out the drive and packing a healthy lunch to eat at our allotted one hour lunch break. ( Yer right I hear you say)  Well you wouldn't drive without your belt on, so why would you deny your body good food?  Why would you deny it movement and fresh air? 
When I hear us non Buddhist monks say " but I just cant meditate and I feel bad about it" Im like... well when did you start working on the habit of BEING?  Its almost humorous that we would find yet another thing to be stressed about, like not meditating well enough!  How about if we started finding and encouraging activities for our self that we flourished in so much that we forgot about time when we were doing them.  That we were so absorbed in the moment of time that time no longer mattered. 
Yes the merits of mediation and stillness are boundless and so are the merits of contentment and mindfulness.
Life is about finding our zen and not pushing ourselves so hard that we forget what our essence or values are.
 Remember looking out the window during long trips in the car and daydreaming in that in between trance space, that could be known as .........you guessed it.  Meditation. 

Walk lightly, love deeply and laugh regularly.  xxx

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