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Diversity and ageing

I was recently privileged enough to sit with 22 culturally diverse people who hailed mostly from European backgrounds and were actively involved in an Age Activities group in their community.  The median age range was 80-90 years of age and they were all still independently living in the community. 
I have never seen so many bright eyed incredibly vibrant older people in a long time.  These women shone.  Their skin radiated health and vitality.  Only three of them used any walking aid and the laughter and connection between them was infectious.
I had an hour with them and wanted to discuss what wellness meant to them.  What was their secrets to feeling well?
 
I went around the table and asked each person questions on wellness and they were so forthcoming, so articulate and so proud to share what made them tick.
 
The answers were the same again and again –
 
Family
Community
Laughter
Spirituality.
Good food, home grown produce and a balance of food groups.
They all bar one walked and moved in some way daily. 
They mowed their lawns and tended their gardens. 
They danced and listened to music.  
They read an array of publications.
They all still spoke several languages, their native tongue filled with passion and joy.
They were happy to be alive – they expected to feel this good and they were so generous in the sharing.
 
In essence their recipe for a long and joyous life included some of the most basic of human needs:


Balanced diet – everything in moderation
Exercise, movement and active living
Connection to family and community
Work & play balance
Finding purpose and meaning in one’s life
 
The three healthiest places in the world where people live the longest were found to be villages in Japan and Italy, and the commonality of both were the many dimensions of wellness that I mentioned above. 
 
There are many dimensions to wellness, irrespective of your overall health or abilities.  If you feel the time is right to discuss your wellness plans and goals then it may also be the right time to engage in a Wellness Coach.
I have done extensive formal and informal training to support you as a coach in many facets of your journey to wellness and Im immensely passionate about supporting others to find their best lifestyle balance, whilst identifying strengths, values and core needs.
So don’t let anything stop you from finding the most congruent ways forward to your life ahead, as Im here to support you in achieving your goals and plans.

7/16/2019 1 Comment

Where does our story start... and where does it end?

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EACH AND EVERY DAY WE HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO START AGAIN IN SO MANY WAYS:
  • To create our wildest dreams
  • To rethink our responses to situations
  • To consider the people we spend time with and how they affect our wellness
  • To follow our careers and passions
  • To learn to respond rather than react to situations
 At the midline of my life it was time to start again from scratch – or was it?

I’ve looked for a very long time – I’ve looked for how to balance my needs with giving myself completely to others, especially my family.
You know what it led to?
Burnout
Breakdown of marriage
Bust ups with my passions & brilliant opportunities to start again.  Which is what led me to consider the very question of where our story starts and where exactly it ends!  Have you ever considered the story of your mother and your mothers mother?  If not, start to discover theses stories - they may just hold some gem.  If you dont think its worth doing, and you have children, then I ask you to consider the worth of your daughter knowing your story and how it impacts their projection in life.

Having a marriage dissolve was beyond painful for me, selling the family home and leaving my beloved community broke parts of my heart and confidence, holding on while every transition happened felt out of control at times, but out of the ashes I knew after a time that something new would birth.  I just needed time and the right people in my life.
Amidst the personal grief work I was doing, I had an inarguable desire to continue creating space for other women to do their healing because I know there is something profoundly necessary and magical when women have the opportunity to gather in a safe space to share their stories and listen to other women.  In order to remain connected, strengthened and supported. We need this now more than ever, as the modern-day stresses and commitments are placed on us.
Women DO all the time, and what we NEED is to just BE.
Ever since I attended my first transformational retreat, I’ve fallen in love with the truth telling and intimacy that is created when a group of women gather around a common intention, with a skilled facilitator leading the way.  I have now stepped back up to be the facilitator of all things women and Goddess in love, living and learning and Im so looking forward to sitting in the Goddess space with you soon. xxx


 



1 Comment
Catherine Benchmo
7/19/2019 05:10:22 pm

Congratulations on being a beautiful soul sister on this amazing earth journey. May we meet again in a yarning circle. God bless, sending you strength & harmony❤️love Chic xx

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